At
the Baptist Hospital ,
St. Louis , Missouri - that is where I was born on
January 22, 1928, a Sunday - around 11:00 a.m., I have been told.
My father was Herman Francis Borgman, a
postal clerk at the main Post Office, located across from Union Station in
downtown St. Louis . He was originally from Jonesboro , Arkansas . Martha Vivien Borgman, nee Wecker, my mother,
was born in McLeansboro , Illinois .
My parents resided at a small house, that
sat on the top of a terrace, at 8246
Monroe Street , Vinita Park , Missouri , an unincorporated village
then. It was located in St. Louis County ,
west of the City of St. Louis . St. Louis is
not in a county - just like Baltimore and Los Angeles are not in
counties.
My mother had two miscarriages - both male
babies - before she had me. Maybe that
is way she was always so protective of me, especially when I was a child.
John Allen Borgman, my father's father
was still alive then. He lived in Jonesboro , Arkansas ,
with Ida, his second wife. Ida's sister,
my father's mother, had passed away from tuberculosis, and John married
Ida. My father's sister, Lola, had also
passed away from t.b., as we called it.
My mother's parents - George W. and Minnie
Wecker lived in the West End of the City of St. Louis . Their address was 1373
Temple Place ._
I recall going there almost every week-end to visit my grandparents and
my great-grandmother, Minnie's mother, Annette Jacobs.
I
recall my father playing leapfrog with me, as a child, in the livingroom and catch with me
in the backyard. We used a tennis ball,
and he throw it a little too hard to me, and it hit me in the eye, and I was a
bit afraid of a ball ever since then. I
remember my mother and Aunt Thelma and grandmother talking about me reciting the
nursery rhyme, "Three Little Kittens." I used to lisp, and I supposedly said
"Three little kithens, they lost their mithens," or whatever. Maybe, I think I remember this, because I kept
hearing about my lisp on this rhyme all through my childhood and even into
adulthood. Even as a child I grew weary
of hearing the story.
At
the age of four or five I was in a "play" - or was it a
pageant? - regarding Tom Thumb's wedding. This was a big thing in those days, it seems. It was held at the Vinita Park Methodist Church . My school mates Dawn Roth and Walter Eschbach might have had
played parts in it. Eschbach was
probably Tom Thumb. It is also possible
that Margaret Rose had a part in it as well.
Grandaddy
George was a drummer - a travelling salesman. During the Depression, he hardly ever worked. He did not have a gray hair in his head. He never did until the day he died. He used to lie about his age, trying to get a
job, but I beleive he was caught in the lie at least once, and he did not get
the job.
Mimi, my
mother's mother, and Grandaddy George lived at
1373 Temple Place
in St. Louis . Mimi's mother, whom I called Jakie, my
great grandmother, also lived there. It
was a big, two-story, brick house, with a big back yard. An interesting footnote is that the famous clarinetist Pee Wee Russell's mother's family had resided at a house at 1369 Temple Place .
My
parents and I used to go to the house at 1373 Temple Place almost every weekend
and sometimes during the weekday evenings. My Aunt Thelma, my mother's sister, Uncle Stanley, her husband, and
Bettye Jane Tollman, their daughter, also frequently visited there. They came from South St.
Louis , where they usually lived. For some reason, they moved around a lot.
Uncle Stanley worked for Standard Oil of
Indiana. I believe he was a truck driver
part of the time. Later, he managed a
Standard Oil distribution center, or something like that.
Jakie was an interesting character. She used to ask me to help her walk up or
down the three or four steps of the front porch. Sometimes on Saturday afternoons, Jakie would
disappear. Mimi would ask everybody - my
mother, my father, Grandaddy George, or me - where she was, and nobody
knew. Aunt Ruth, who also
lived there when I was a young child, wouldn't know where Jakie
might be either. It was like a game. Someone would finally say, "It's Ladies'
Day at the ballpark! She must be at the
ballgame."
And
we learned that on Ladies' Day, Jakie would sneak out of the house, go down the
porch steps with no help whatsoever and get into a cab that she had
called. She would go to the ballgame,
pay 25 cents (for tax) and see the Cardinals or Browns. Sometimes she would talk the cab drivers into
taking her to or from the ballpark for nothing. She really was quite a character!
Jakie and Minnie in back. |
I began Kindergarten when I was
five-and-a-half years old. I went to Washington School ,
which was located in the adjacent unincorporated village, Vinita Terrace. In my class were Ralph Meek, my next door
neighbor, Lina Mae Sparks, Martha Belle Zehringer, Walter Eschbach, Edward
Bachstiegel, Alberta Freeman, Dawn Roth, and John Wesley.
When I was five years old, I began playing the
xylophone in the grammar school orchestra. My bandmate Ruth Aust was way ahead of me in school, and she didn't like me because
I was so young. Not long after I began
the xylophone, I began piano lessons with Mrs. Kennedy, who lived down my
street, across North and South
Road .